This picture likely encapsulates more than just a snapshot in time; it speaks volumes. For me, as it will for you, this image stands as one of the most profound and meaningful I’ve ever captured and chosen to share. At first glance, it’s simply a family portrait. However, delve a little deeper, and you’ll find it’s anything but ordinary. This photo was taken six months into our divorce. Yet, the remarkable part isn’t the backdrop of separation, but the ease with which it came together and the sincerity behind sharing it.
This ease stems from one central point: HER.
Merely stating, “the children come first,” is insufficient. It requires active practice, a conscious effort to embody this sentiment daily, even when faced with challenges. Yesterday, however, this commitment felt effortless. It was her birthday, a day dedicated to ensuring she felt, unequivocally, the depth of her parents’ love. The intention was clear: to show her, visually, that we could still sit together, enjoy a meal, united as a family. STILL.
Life will now unfold across two homes, and she will have two distinct spaces. Yet, she will forever be anchored by two parents, equally dedicated to demonstrating that love manifests in many forms. Capturing this photo at this pivotal moment, I believe, sends a powerful message to her: love doesn’t cease with divorce; it evolves, opening avenues for a new kind of relationship. One where her well-being and happiness remain the unwavering focus, because, as I consistently affirm, she is our guiding light.
This picture doesn’t portray a family that has navigated every challenge flawlessly. Far from it. We are parents who have weathered a significant life transition while raising a young child. But… I feel immense pride in this photo. I am, frankly, proud of myself. I want to demonstrate to Landon the inherent strength of women. We are survivors of disappointment, heartbreak, and pain. We possess the resilience to rise, to rediscover joy, and to cherish the people and moments that bring smiles back into our lives. We also have the capacity to see the good in others, even in those who were once our spouses.
This picture also serves as a future touchstone for Landon. I want her to look at the genuine smiles gracing all three of our faces and understand that this joy exists because of our profound love for her. Joy derived from shared experiences, from everything she has given us. I want her to know that even amidst significant changes, the most crucial element remains constant: our unwavering love and steadfast support for her will never falter.
Family portrait of a mother, father, and daughter smiling at a table, symbolizing love and co-parenting after divorce.
Happy Sunday, friends.
xoxo,
Eloise
